Dining taboos & customs in Vietnam (We will also tell you which one you can get away from!)

In Vietnamese culture, there are several dining taboos and customs that are important to observe to show respect and appreciation for the food and the hosts. Here are some common taboos and practices related to eating and meal times in Vietnam:

Chopstick Etiquette

You should avoid sticking chopsticks directly into a bowl of rice as it resembles incense offerings at a family altar.

Also don’t pass food with chopsticks because it is reminiscent of a funeral ritual, so it’s best to transfer food directly onto the other person’s plate.

No, death is not a common topic to discuss or to remind us during our dining time, thank you. 

Seating Arrangements

Traditionally the oldest or most respected person is usually seated first and served first. The head of the family or the most senior member is typically seated at the head of the table. 

But you can get away from this especially if you’re from a foreign country and you’re our guest. Just sit wherever you want. Vietnamese are very traditional but we’re also pretty forgiving, so you’re good. 

Pouring Drinks

It’s customary to pour tea or drinks for others before refilling your own cup. 

Eating Habits

Slurping or making loud noises while eating is generally considered impolite. 

Also, avoid speaking with food in your mouth. Finish chewing before engaging in conversation.

Discussing sensitive topics: Avoid discussing topics like death, sickness, or negative news during meal times.

Yeah exactly, we don’t care about how much you love our food, you’d better be quiet. 

Offering and Receiving Food

When receiving food or dishes from others, it’s polite to use both hands. Similarly, when offering food to someone, use both hands as a sign of respect.

Waste and Leftovers (this one is big)

In Vietnamese culture, wasting food is frowned upon. It’s best to take only what you can finish to show appreciation for the meal. We also strongly believe in karma, if you don’t  finish your meal, you may face extreme poverty in your next life. 

By being mindful of these dining taboos and customs, you can show respect for Vietnamese culture and traditions while enjoying the delicious cuisine the country has to offer.

OR you can just have a meal in a restaurant and forget about all of the things you just read. It’s your holiday, remember to have fun.